Comments on: Paul Francis Graham

By: shonnie.fred.grise@gmail.com

shonnie.fred.grise@gmail.com — Wed, 10 Feb 2016 15:23:23 +0000

Paul, you were a remarkable caring person. We knew you first when you worked at the Delawana like the family and so many of us. You were always brilliant in social situations. When you were Social Director your bingo games drew hundreds! In a room full of people, you could form a real connection with each and every one. For those of us lucky enough to know you well, you made us all feel like we were your best friends.
If laughter is the best medicine you should have been a doctor. We don’t mean just the ordinary kind of ha!ha! (although we shared many of those) but the sidesplitting belly laughter that releases the heart and mind and soul.
Although we could write a book of treasured memories, we especially think of you and Helen at Windermere House when you were so close to us and our children. We shared so much during those times and your good cheer and optimism influenced us all.
Then there was your courage! You bore a relentless disease not only with amazing grace but with your unfailing sense of humour. You are a true inspiration.
Paul, we will never forget you!
To Helen, Andrea and Clare we send our condolences on your loss-he was taken too soon. We wish you joy and consolation in precious baby Sophie and laughter through your tears.
Lots of love, Fred and Shonnie

By: paulmckernan

paulmckernan — Wed, 10 Feb 2016 01:21:17 +0000

My, how time passes.
So sad to hear of Paul’s passing; he was a class act; ever the gentleman, impeccably dressed, groomed, and yet there was always a sense of humour and playfulness bubbling beneath the very calm, controlled exterior. Wonderful guy.
I will always remember him wheeling into the Brebeuf parking lot commanding that big, dark green Buick Electra 225, gliding it effortlessly; smooth, calm and confidently to rest.
Be well, friend,
Paul McKernan

By: corky

corky — Sun, 07 Feb 2016 21:23:20 +0000

My parents cottage on McArthur Drive.

By: corky

corky — Sun, 07 Feb 2016 21:21:57 +0000

By: corky

corky — Sun, 07 Feb 2016 21:20:28 +0000

Kelly and I tried to plan our own wedding but didn’t have a clue about what we were doing. We even had the invitations printed. Paul phoned me and said would you like me to help???? So Paul and Helen organized our wedding at Windermere. We could not have done it with out them.
My Father’s buddies all showed up (Halls,Wakelys, Bernardos, DeCarli) and were sitiing at a table waiting for lunch. Paul came over to the table, in cohoots with my Father, and told them that Kelly’s family were very religious and that it was a ‘dry’ wedding and that there wouldn’t be any alcohol served all weekend. Paul then let them sit for a bit while Mr. Hall and Mr. Wakely almost had heart attack trying to find out where the nearet LCBO so they could have a bottle in their rooms. My Father and Paul told them that it was too far to drive and the LCBO would be closed. In the end Paul let them know it was all a joke.
The day of the wedding Paul sent a bottle of champagne up to Kelly’s room to enjoy while the girls got ready. Subsequently Kelly and the girls and her official photographer (Margie Graham) were 45 minutes late for the Church.

By: corky

corky — Sun, 07 Feb 2016 21:19:54 +0000

By: corky

corky — Sun, 07 Feb 2016 21:01:10 +0000

By: gregjohnson

gregjohnson — Sun, 07 Feb 2016 06:14:46 +0000

I took this photo of Helen, Paul and baby Andrea at their Castlefield Ave home in 1980. Paul was working at Ontario Place and was a larger than life character with hair to match.

By: gregjohnson

gregjohnson — Sun, 07 Feb 2016 06:12:09 +0000

October 1980: It was my year in Canada, visiting from far away Australia. Paul’s holding baby Andrea and we were pumpkin huntin because I had no idea how big these Canadian pumpkins were! That’s me on the right with the long hair.

By: neleh4melba

neleh4melba — Sat, 06 Feb 2016 06:10:12 +0000

It wasn’t only the men who groaned. He made me go play Bingo on our honeymoon!!